BDSM - power and powerlessness starts
BDSM is an abbreviation that combines the terms bondage and discipline (B & D), domination and submission (D & S), and sadism and masochism (S & M). BDSM is the ultimate climax with discipline and pain. BDSM is more popular than ever.
From gentle leadership to hard blows - BDSM is very multifaceted
BDSM is on everyone's lips since Fifty Shades of Gray at the latest. But who thinks that this special erotic variety is explained with a few lashes, is wrong. BDSM is a wide field. BDSM is as diverse as humans are. Countless variations and combinations of acting out are possible. From a pure lustful variant in the sexual area to the full enjoyment in everyday life, every day and 7 days a week (24/7).
What does BDSM mean?
BDSM means Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism. That means as much as Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission and Sadism & Masochism.
These terms mean:
Shackles: That tie with rope, cuffs, handcuffs or the like to fix the passive part
Discipline: The punishment of misconduct of the passive part, so to speak the "education". This can be possible in different forms (if you want to know more, please let me know)
Dominance: the desire to determine others and others to obey him / her.
Submission: The counterpart to a dominant person is a submissive or submissive person. This means she loves to be subjected and to serve.
Sadism: The pleasure of the pain of others, so the desire to inflict other pain.
Masochism: The counterpart to sadism is masochism. The masochist likes to receive pain and loves it, so they excite him.
At the BDSM, the participants go voluntarily and for pleasure from their equal rights in a power gap. The submissive partner, also called sub or bottom, gives up a certain part of his self-determination and hands it over to the dominant (determining) partner, Dom or Top. The sub is tied or humiliated in a predetermined setting, but also caresses. In the helplessness, the Auszubiefertsein and being educated is the attraction. The dome finds the stimulus and the excitement in control, the power over the sub.
The BDSM game also includes certain accessories and toys. So often used for spanking devices, Flogger whips or paddle. Shackles, blindfolds, nipple clamps and Co. add spice to the power game. The hot candle wax game is also a popular tool for creating pleasure pain.